THE MANY FACES OF LOVE: PART 2 STOP THE LIES

THE WINDS OF CHANGE

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OKAY! 
Lissen up you deniers of the truth.

THIS MAY come as a shock but.

NOBODY is 100% straight.

GASP!

NOPE NOBODY...
and that has NOTHING to do with 
MY ability to...
Nope.

IT'S A PROVEN SCIENTIFIC FACT. 
PERIOD.

You can try all you want to to deny your gay side.

Go ahead, I'll wait.

DONE?

OK.

You can lie your ass off to me 

(good luck with that one)

I ain't as dumb or as COW POKE 
as I may appear...

LOL

and you can lie to others, 
and MAYYYBEEE

even to yourself. 
(Hah. That should prove funny).

BUT. The fact remains. 
If you are presented with the right opportunity 
AND the right dude, YOU WILL GO FOR IT. 

OH I KNOW PRECIOUS...

You think not.

HAHAH

and the truth is you probably 
already have more than likely 
but you rationalize, try to...

but at least even if you can HOOOOOOOLD 
howdy back you WILL be sorely tempted. 
If you DO you just be SORE. 
ESPECIALLY if you been shall we say 
DEPRIVED 
for a time or if you have one of these 
sex drives on steroids.

LOVE THOSE!

You know. Shoot upstairs, goes out the window and runs down the driveway and causes an accident in the street out front. BAM BAM.

Ok. What we talky here is NOTHING 
to fear or be embarrassed about or ashamed of. 
It IS the HUMAN GENOME thingy. 
DNA, and IT IS the way 
we are geared, structured, 
formed BY GOD I might add 
who I have ALWAYS maintained has a 
ROWDY sense of humor. GO GOD.

ANYONE, whether they be a minister, 
a rabbi, priest, Imam, parent, friend, sibling, 
Hobo from New Jersey...WHATEVER.

ANYONE who tries to bullshit you otherwise? 
Is UNinformed,  MIS (or Mrs) informed, 
Illiterate, LYING THEIR ASSES OFF. 

Ignorance by the way is NO excuse. 
It IS something to be wary of but NO excuse.

Ignorance is lack of knowledge
and STUPID is knowing 
and fucking up anyway.

We have known all this stuff for DECADES...
and yes this also works in reverse 
but that is another story.

YOU my friend, 
whether you want to admit it or not 
are AT LEAST IN PART, GAY. 
Ohhhh YETH YOU ARE...
GIGGLE.

God I love this part.  
YOU ARE MY HOMEY HOMY. 
Or homely homey or...

and that factoid while true is NOT by choice. 

YOU DIDN'T WAKE UP ONE MORNING 
AND GO...

"I THINK I WILL TURN GAY TODAY,"

cause if you DID...you are NUTS. 
You are SO nuts even squirrels 
will avoid you and EVERYONE KNOWS 
what greedy little bastards THEY are.

TRUTH IS NOBODY IN THEIR RIGHT OR LEFT MIND WOULD EVER CHOOSE this life...
even if it IS just A BARREL of laughs...
hotties falling all over me,

MONEY AND FAME AND...
Dancing with Justin, and...


YEH RIGHT!

NOBODY IN TRUTH DOES 
choose to be gay OR straight 
OR tall 
OR a NERD, or...

THIS GOES FOR GIRLS TOO.

We are BORN with the genetic codes 
BUILT IN, 
like UGLY in a BAT. 

Some of us are MORE straight 
and some of us are MORE gay, 
but just the way it cuts.

Nobody 10o% one way or the other.

Cept me.

SO GET OVER IT.

You may not want me and I may not want 
YOUR UGLY ASS...tweetie, 
but this isn't about orientation. 
THIS IS ABOUT HAVING GOOD TASTE.

OR A DEFINITE LACK THEREOF.

Orientation is NOT something we choose 
any more than YOU chose to be 
AS UGLY AS PONDSHIT. 
It just happens, see?

It isn't anything we can control either. 
The gaybashers and those who PROFIT off 
what they see as the weakness in others...
trying to market CURES to the 
haters and the vulnerable 
and the GULLIBLE notwithstanding. 

Social scientists and Geneticists AGREE. 

To deny one's basic sexuality is to repress and deny and THAT is dangerous. It is like going around and pretending you are BLACK, when you came from a VERY WASP family in MINNEAPOLIS.

Nobody gonna buy it HUUUUNNNNN
and if you ain't even got a good tan 
going for yah...PULEEZE.

According to the experts,
the repression of WHO YOU REALLY ARE carries the same risks as denying your need to orgasm and we ALL know how GODAWFUL that is. Eventually the resulting pent-up frustration and its physical tyranny upon your own body WILL cause a melt down...or a melt something or other.

Human males NEED to climax, have an orgasm? When he says HONEY I NEED YOU...you better listen before you wake up underwa...under come

and he is moaning his ASS off.

To deny yourself in other words causes physical harm. If you don't git some, sooner or later your body WILL retaliate. NOT good NOT good.

WHAT A FUCKING SHAME...so to speak.

To live your life repressed, 
trying to repress a side of yourself that is as 
natural to human beings as breathing 
and making you miserable and stressed 
deep down causes heart and stroke issues 
sooner or later. 

The physical harm is one thing, 
but the psychological harm is just as deadly. 

For many, either or both together can become life-threatening. Even if you can manage to fake it 
on the surface, it all takes a toll.

Now this is not meant for ALL men. 
Some men are more naturally heterosexual 
or both gay and straight pretty much equally 
and if they can find a mate of the same sex with whom they can find love and release on a fairly regular basis or even occasionally and perhaps casually that can and frequently does work.
But for those who internally lean 
FAR MORE to same sex relationships 
and not for just sex but for the relationship itself...
to deny that part of you is DANGEROUS!

Whether or not YOU do, WE as a species know 
a hell of a lot more about ourselves than we did 
20-30 years ago...and we have seen changes.

Changes in relationships
and in attitudes for example.

Men today HUG more, even KISS. 
Men are more capable it seems 
of just plain CARING more. 
More sensitive and more able to be tender. 
Gentle. More in tune with their inner man, 
and all of this is to the good. 

It reminds me of my ancestors coming to 
the United States.

They had grown weary of the generations 
of tyranny and oppression at the hands 
of the Brits. They had suffered for so long 
and like in the Middle East, it had little to do 
with theology or ideology but rather 
wanting to manipulate and control others. 
THAT is what ALL of the colonial powers did. 
The Brits, the Dutch, the Portuguese, 
the Spaniards.

The Brits back in the middle 1800's  were far more puritanical than they are today, but they had also decided that IF they could keep their subjects like the Pakistanis who were Patriarchal by nature,  if they could keep them from knowing the freedom of choice as an example, along with their neighbors 
and fellow Arabs the Afghans. If they could keep them fearful and self-loathing about their natures 
as a people? Then they could manipulate and control them EASIER. Evidently the Brits sensed in the Pakistanis some inherent fear perhaps of their own psyche's but whatever. It worked and TO THIS DAY over 160 years after the Brits pulled out of the Middle East, Pakistan and its people are STILL struggling to accept THEMSELVES for who they are.

IT IS SAD for the Pakistanis are a BEAUTIFUL people. Cultured, intelligent, creative and very talented. I see it constantly in the Pakistani 
and Afghan dudes I meet. 

Not all, but sadly 
far too many.

They freak at discussing sexuality. 
THAT is the legacy of the Brits. THEY ROBBED 
the Pakistanis and Afghans of their sexual
self-confidence if you will.

So many are STILL HORRIBLY repressed 
and fearful and SO LONG after the oppressors are gone, that legacy lives on. They live in MORTAL FEAR of being exposed as being gay or bi, 
BUT THIS IS THE HEART of much of their culture. 

Course EVEN IF they are banging their brains out with their fellow MEN, but if you can KEEP them from talking publicly about it..AND keep them
from coupling publicly EVEN IF you know they ARE DOING it (cause that is SO embedded in Pakistani culture...even the massive attempts by the Brits to rid the Pakistanis of their penchant to pair off and mate literally with other dudes..FAILED. MISERABLY. FAILED.

Their love and affection for their fellow Pakistani men is BEAUTIFUL. THEY CARE. It IS NOT just about sex, it IS about LOVE and EVERY time I see a Pakistani dude look at his soulmate, his FRIEND, and the eyes tell the story, 
it gives me GOOSEPIMPLES. I am SERIOUS, cause I SEE the LOVE there. SO kewl.

So who in the fuck has the RIGHT to tell Pakistani men they can't love whom they want?

OF WHAT OR WHOM? WHO IN THE HELL TODAY has the right to psychologically IMPRISON them. WO IN THE HELL has the right to hold them hostage to faux laws that were NEVER Pakistani and which were perpetrated UPON them by oppressors who HAVE BEEN GONE FOR OVER A CENTURY AND A HALF?

NOBODY that's who.

This part of even their religion is bogus as it came about by people wanting control to seize on the fears of other men. People like the Taliban EAT AWAY at the self-confidence  of men and like a cancer eventually they destroy what is beautiful by an ugly disease called hate and bigotry and GREED.

It IS changing, finally, thank God. 

MORE and MORE dudes I see are putting 'INTERESTED IN MEN' in their status and not the fucking MEN AND WOMEN wink wink..
and even that had been a radical step up.
There are now a number of LGBT organizations rising up in Pakistan and Afghanistan, especially in Karachi and Islamabad, 
BUT...

THE BRITS ARE STILL WINNING 
if they can almost virtually from the grave keep Pakistani men from openly talking about their sexuality.

THE LOVE THAT DARE NOT SPEAK ITS NAME

has NO place in the 21st century if it even ever did but the manipulative or at least ignorant Imams who purvey the hate of the past continue to try to use bigotry like a WEAPON. 

For God's sake, IT IS the 21st century but in an area making so much progress but with SO many SO tied to a bygone era that probably never even existed except in their minds and imaginations....
An area where many would love to go back and ride burro's I guess.

The genie is out of the bottle now and in Pakistan and Afghanistan, in Iraq and Iran and Saudi Arabia...things are changing even if the old guard of the past tries to re-install the CORK.

Change IS coming. ALL OVER THE WORLD change is coming. People no longer are willing to tolerate oppression and tyranny and HATE and BIGOTRY,
NOR the loss of basic human rights. God knows it has changed in the United States. Who would have thought not that long ago we would see marriage equality in over half the country, and in areas that encompass over 80% of the population. it is also is changing or already has for the U.K., Brazil, Portugal, Malaysia, and dozens of other countries and cities. 

If you are primarily or totally heterosexual, then FINE. I am basically not talking to you except as this subject AFFECTS you as a HUMAN being. But if you are not straight but only pretending. If you are not and repressing your sexuality...your inner man, then be careful. That is DANGEROUS, and mostly to YOU.

It matters not a whit to me generally speaking WHAT your orientation is. Unless you are into proselytizing and I ain't into that. Matters not to me if you repress until you BLOW UP. Blow your brains out because you can't deal with the stress and that happens all the time. I see it in FB in dudes all the time.  The pain and hurt and the SELF-INFLICTED shame SHIT which is totally unwarranted and unnecessary and STUPID, misguided and dangerous.

Boys, please grow up. Grow a spine. GROW SOME BALLS. GROW INTO the person you are meant to be. 

NOT the person your parents want you to be, or your clergy or whoever. LONG AFTER THEY ALL DEAD...YOU gonna have to look in the mirror, look into your soul, AND WONDER...where did your life go. You will be left with the dead carcass of YOU. The you you were meant to be, created to be, happy and free...and wondering what happened to the life you were meant to live. The life PROMISED to you, CREATED FOR YOU, that life of joy and happiness...not unhappiness and self-loathing. The one YOU REJECTED out of fear and stupidity.

DON'T LET OTHERS DICTATE to you. 
Don't let them dictate YOU TO YOU.

BE who you really are.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. FREEDOM!
Nothing like it. NOTHING.
America the land of the FREE was FOUNDED on the principle of personal freedom and over 300 years  later and many attempts to overtake us, we are STILL the land of opportunity, freedom. 
LAND OF THE FREE, home of the brave. America CONTINUES to be a beacon on the hill and a lighthouse to the oppressed and those living in the same repressive environments OUR ancestors came here to get away from...and DID.  We hate oppression. We hate repression. We hate those who would enslave ANYONE. FOR ANY REASON.

It's why we came here. Why we stayed and why we FIGHT ANYONE who tries to take it away from us.

I know many Pakistanis and Afghans want to come here. Leave the violence and the political bullshit of the Middle East and I cannot blame them. But...
while for many America may be their future for others maybe not. Maybe for college, but then return.

FOR SOME their itch is to stay AND CHANGE their country. It wasn't easy for Americans back in the beginning, but WE HAD THE BALLS to stand up and say NOT ANY MORE NOT HERE. You can too.

Oh yes you can. Organize.Join forces with your fellow countrymen. WE did and so can you and know you are NOT alone. THE WORLD is FULL of people who want you to succeed.

YOU are NOT alone dudes. YOU AREN'T, girls. NO matter who is repressing you, whether it is about orientation or something else, we can stand with you. Me and millions of others.

WE WANT to welcome the people of the Middle East further into the community of nations. And there are many like me who can and will help.

I love you. Millions and millions of others do too. It starts with understanding and friendship and genuine affection. NOT the stand-offish, cynical and skeptical bullshit I have seen from some. But openness. So C'mon. STOP being so AFRAID.
Embrace life, embrace each other for who you are. Embrace the Westerners who like me love you.

AND LET'S LIVE A NEW LIFE OF HAPPINESS AND JOY AND FREEDOM...TOGETHER.